Like you, I love to hear when someone feels I did a good job. I don't need to hear a verbal response. Seeing my children's faces on Christmas morning, receiving a pat on the back from co-worker, earning a bonus in my pay check, or the sweet bubbly feeling God puts in our hearts is plenty for me. In the middle of the job or in preparation of the work, though, I frequently feel nervous. Nervousness is a response to caring if others appreciate the work done for them. Nervousness is also a response to knowing we were not fully prepared. A tinge of guilt goes along with this form of nervousness. Recently, I heard a judge tell a performer: "Suppressing the nerves and hiding that [suppression] is important 'cause we are all nervous all the time. You know. It's like part of the job. But to, kind of never, make anyone believe that you are [nervous] is a huge part of performance. Try to make the 25% that was shaky part of the other 75%, which was really, really...
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