Sherri Langton,
associate editor for Bible Advocate.
She has a Thanksgiving story to tell!
She has a Thanksgiving story to tell!
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I am honored to have Sherri Langton as my guest. She probably doesn't remember the first time we met, but I sure do. I attended the Write to Publish Conference one year and requested one of my teen articles to be crit. Sherri Langton crit that article. She wrote such supportive words AND sought me out to encourage me more. I've never forgotten her kindness.
This past year, Sherri has experienced some difficulties with her health. Knowing her love for God, I asked Sherri to tell us how God led her on her writing journey. Here is what she said:
God Assures Me
Iāve always been one of those
writers who canāt not write. You
know, āI write because I have to.ā As far back as grade school, Iāve been
compelled to record my thoughts on paper and share them with others. Itās in my
DNA.
That compulsion to write progressed
through public school, college, and the workforce. Several months after being
mercifully laid off a banking job, I landed an editorial position at the Bible Advocate magazine. Bingo! God led
a word lover to a word loverās job!
At the same time, I was freelancing
in the Christian market and attending Christian writerās conferences, both as a
conferee and an editor. Like a sponge, I soaked up the knowledge shared by
professional writers and editors.
What a journey with God! With His
guidance, I wrote about all kinds of experiences: the layoff, office conflicts
at my previous employer, my difficult step-grandfather, and other subjects.
Over the years as I matured in my
writing, God led me to record the darker stuff of life: my sisterās depression,
a Columbine mother trying to make sense of her sonās slaughter, another mother
finding lessons in her adult daughterās murder.
These dark topics inspired me to
make my articles and stories accurately reflect the reality of pain. A chapter
titled āThe Literature of Personal Disaster,ā in Nancy Mairsā book Voice Lessons: On Becoming a (Woman) Writer,
especially helped me. Mairs observed that too much of whatās written about
tragedy is mediocre. Her challenge: Donāt just record horrific events, but make
those events real through description. Make them redemptive by showing how
people changed through their suffering.
This approach to writing the dark
paid off. Doors providentially swung open to major magazine markets, such as Decision, Focus on the Family, In Touch,
and Discipleship Journal. I marveled
at Godās ability to create good out of peopleās heartache and touch readers
through the printed page.
But in late 2012, I hit a wall. On
October 31 a doctor removed a growth that had wrapped around my thyroid. The
pre-surgery biopsy showed atypical cells, but the post-surgery biopsy showed
lymphoma. āItās treatable with chemo,ā the doctor said. He made it sound as
uneventful as having a cavity filled.
It wasnāt. The diagnosis upended my
life. Most of November was given to tests, visiting the oncologist, and dealing
with shock. It was all so frightening, so . . . dark. Like so many of the
suffering people Iād written about, I cried. I sank into depression. I spewed
my anger.
Once chemo started in December, the
one who canāt not write couldnāt
write at all. Treatments required six five-day hospital stays, three weeks
apart. While working to save my life, this regimen also distanced me from
writing. I didnāt even feel like a
writer. I was a patient banished to a foreign country called Oncology, where every creative cell was
being destroyed along with cancer cells.
Following each treatment, I spent
days fighting fatigue. āGive into it,ā people urged me, and I did. Resting
worked toward my healing but moved me even farther from writing. I looked
longingly at boxes of contributorās copies that contained my stories and
articles from years past. Those were the
days, I lamented.
In her book The Story Within Laura Oliver quotes Octavia Butler: āI have this
theory that anything that happens to you that leaves you alive and intact can
be used somewhere in your writing.ā I believe that. Thanks to Godās gentle
nudges, I have tiptoed into my dark place and produced articles and a
devotional. Editors have readily received them, affirming that God is bringing
good from my bad situation (Romans
8:28).
However, even today, eight months
removed from treatments and enjoying good health again, I avoid writing in
depth about my journey. Iām āalive and intactā all right, but to make good
literature out of my disaster, I must be real. I must unpack memories placed in
mothballs, explore emotions, and express lessons learned. I donāt know all of
them yet. Itās too soon, too fresh.
Exploring the deep things of
darkness ā the unknowns of disease, the unfairness of life upside down ā will
have to wait. I need time and a cooling distance to gain perspective from
something so personally painful.
But thatās OK. God waits patiently
and assures me that when I revisit the dark, I will not do it alone. His āever
present helpā (Psalm 46:1) stands ready to work His good in yet another way.
Sherri
Langton,
associate editor of the Bible Advocate
magazine and of Now What?
e-zine, has worked over 20 years in Christian publishing. She is an
award-winning freelance writer whose work has appeared in Focus on the Family, In Touch,
Upper Room, Todayās Christian Woman, Marriage
Partnership, and other publications. Sherri also has contributed her
writing to Chicken Soup for the Soul in
Menopause, Chicken Soup for the Soul:
Parenthood, My Turn to Care, Teatime Stories for Women, Becoming a Godly Man, Faces of Faith, and Hurray God! In addition, she teaches wor kshops at several Christian writers conferences. Sherri
lives in Denver, Colorado, where she enjoys playing drums and percussion at her
church.
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Comments
So nice to see you this morning. I hope you've had a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday.
Thank you for sharing your wishes with Sherri. God's blessings on you and yours.
Looking forward to your next visit.
Looking forward to your next visit.
I too walked a path like this. The trials have been immense. It wasn't the last where I learned to record the hurt, the immense emotions involved, my cries, etc. Since then I have been able to use some of these rich descriptions for my stories. It adds the life needed. So, if you can, take a journal and write down what you are feeling, what you are wanting to say and do, what you are not saying and doing. Keep it in a safe place. Some day you will see the treasure God has given you with the rich words you record.
Blessings on you, sister.
Mary